Would you beat up your girlfriend or wife if she went to a male strip club?

If you truly loved your woman ( like I do) you would be happy that she was having a good time - my GF has been to male strip clubs on a couple of occasions for hens nights - and I honestly didn't care - I just wanted her to enjoy herself - because I belive I love her - she is not a possession of mine - she is a free and beautiful creature and I trust her not to hurt me - I honestly don't care if she gets raunchy or even kisses these guys because I know she is just enjoying herself - I would be hurt if she slept with a stripper but to the best of my knowledge she hasn't . Real Men are happy when their women are happy. sounds like the guys you are talking about are deeply insecure and as a result become possessive and controlling - Find a real man whose focus is onloving you and wanting you to be happy and dump the little boy who is so insecure he needs to control you.